Main Character Energy explores what happens when leadership becomes too centered on the leader. Drawing from Paul Graham’s “founder mode,” Jamil Zaki’s research, Gallup data, and the idea of supporting-character energy, this post examines how power can narrow perspective and weaken connection. The alternative is a more curious, humble approach to leadership: listening deeply, helping people connect work to meaning, and remembering that leadership is not about owning the whole

Leadership is often imagined as something elevated—a title, a crown, a position of power. But anyone who has truly led people knows leadership can feel heavy. When it’s rooted in admiration or control, it becomes exhausting to sustain. William J. Bennett reminds us that the only crown worn with comfort is the crown of service. When leaders start with service rather than status, trust grows, pressure eases, and leadership becomes something carried with humility, not defended w