Grit is often praised as a leadership virtue—but persistence without reflection can quietly turn into blindness. Staying committed to a goal doesn’t mean clinging to a failing plan. Markets shift, strategies break, and new information emerges. Effective leaders know when to push through obstacles—and when to rethink the path. True resilience isn’t stubbornness; it’s the wisdom to adapt, revise, or walk away when the cost of continuing outweighs the value.

In a world obsessed with self-care, Adam Grant reminds us that kindness is the real catalyst for wellbeing. Generosity not only uplifts others—it strengthens our own resilience, connection, and joy. As leaders, simple acts of kindness can ripple through teams, building trust, morale, and a culture where everyone thrives.